InVaa SG once in a while we chat on the phone.. den recently i start to haf feelings for her.. den its like now is mid year exam period.. i call her lyk 2 times a day to ask crap.. most of the time she is waken up by my call.. am i too much bothering her? i dun wanan call too but i cannot help it.. jus now she ask me dun call liao..she say she sleeping.. today 1st call from me y she ask me dun call liao? is she hinting from now on dun call liao? I am feeling very down now..
the Bear SG Do you know when her exams are over? Call her once more briefly to wish her luck and say you will not bug her until after exams. Call her immediately after the last paper to congratulate her. See what it's like then follow through from there?
InVaa SG i same sch as her.. we last time quite close 1.. den i start to haf feelings for her recently.. i jus cannot control myself.. n she also lyk enjoy toking to me.. as in got stuff to chat.. y i alawyz call when she sleep.. haiz… i realiee hurt when she tell me dun call anymore.. hope later @nite she call me.. cos tt time she sleepign i call den she lyk raise her voice.. aft tt she call n apologise n chat.. Pray.. realiee damn down now.. mayb i also go sleep
sillyme SG put yourself in her shoes lor.. show genuine concern to her.. but don't be to overwhelming.. nobody wants to be woken up for trivial conversation
skinnybeanie SG mayb can try sms-ing her so tat won't wake her if she's sleeping. If u sms a couple msgs and still no reply by end of day, then probably she's trying to avoid you.
Devil1976 SG Maybe things ain't as bad as you think..? But since you also realise that you can be quite a bothersome person to her, why not be more careful on your own actions...? She might not really hate you for that, but don't overdo things...?
InVaa SG the whole story is i call her den she sleeping.. she woke up blurr blurr den bang into her dad very hard.. den her dad scold her say alawyz ur phone ^&*() etc.. so she ask me dun call alreadi.. den later she call to explain not gd meh?
lavender_scent SG yes you are. Maybe you can leave her alone at least for this exam time period. It'll show a good side of you by doing so.